He seemed like a great catch at first but the more you get to know him, the more you realize the guy can’t seem to give you his full attention or make you a priority in his life even though he keeps dating you. WTF? He might have Attention Deficit Dating Disorder—here are 13 signs to look out for.
1. HE DROOLS OVER OTHER WOMEN. It’s fine for him to check out that pretty redhead who just walked into the club (hey, he’s human), but if you’re trying to tell him about your day and all he can do is watch other women like he’s undressing them with his eyes, the guy’s a player and disrespectful AF.
2. HE KEEPS THINGS CASUAL. He can’t give you his attention? Maybe that’s because he’s giving it to loads of other women. If he says he wants to keep things with you casual (how convenient), he’s got to GTFO. If he can’t put a relationship label on it, he doesn’t deserve to have it. Period!
3. HE CALLS WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT. Like at two in the morning when you were having amazing beauty sleep, or after days of not returning your calls or answering your texts. And not only that, but he wants to see you RIGHT NOW. He’s impulsive and lives in the moment. That’s a problem because things are always on his terms.
4. HE NEVER PLANS AHEAD.Mr. Spontaneous is really just Mr. I Don’t Think About The Future With You. Sorry, but it’s true. If he can’t think further than an hour into the future, it’s a sign that he’s not actually serious about dating you. You’re just a distraction for now or a booty call.